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fibsgrewovertheyeatsintojiesthatmadehermillions,whileriskingthehealthofherfollowers.孔AblueprintlikeGibson\'sisdetectableinmanyotherwisediverseStoriesofgranddeceitthathavebecomefront-pagenewsovertheyears.Allofthem一fromRachelDolezal,whofalselyclaimedtobeBlack,andElizabethHolmes，whousedfraudulentclaimstobuildabiotechnologyempire,toGeorge9antos，thememberofCongresswholiedabouthiseducationandhisemploymentbtobehavioralscientistDiederikAlexanderStapel,whofabricatedscientificdatal一hadonethingincommon.IheirdishonestactscouldbetracedbacktoaSequenceofsmajllertransgressionsthatgraduallyescalated.Noneofthisistosaythatpeoplewhofind由emselvesinaPositionjikeJonah\'sinwhichtheyfeelaneedtojlierepeatedlyw记allendupcommittingseriouscrimes.Jonahhimselfgrewuptobeagoodfatherandarespectedmemberofsociety(althoughhenevergotridofhislyinghabitb).NorarewesayingthatPretendingtogotobedeverynightforthesakeofdomesticblissw计eventuallyleadtogranddeceit，Numerouscomplexfactorsleadcertainindividualstoorchestratetheworld\'slargestPonzischemeortofakecancer,andmanyofthemhavenothingtodowithhabituation.Whatwearesayingisthatsmallliescananddoleadtomorefrequentandlargerlies.InthewordsofBernardMa

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do企“Itstartsoutwithyoutakingalittlebitmaybeafewhundred,afewthousand.Yougetcomfortablewiththabandbeforeyouknowititsnowballsintosomething刁本ThisistruefortheHolmesesandtheGibsonsofthisworld,anditcouldbetrueforyoutoo.THESELFLESSLIEYoumightwonderwhetherdishonestyalwaysescalates,ofwhetheritmatters计liesaretoldforgoodreason.”Considertheselflesslie,onethatistoldpurelyforthebenefitofanotherperson.Coveringupforacolleagueatworkandtakingtheblameforamistakeasiblingcommittedareexamplesofselftessjying.Peopleoftendon\'tfeeltoobadaboutsuchlies.Theymayfeelvirtuousandsohavenothingtowhichtohabituate.Inourcoins-in-the-jarexperimenbwecreatedaSituationinwhichadvisers(SuchasLeanora)couldjietohelptheadvisee(suchasRina)withoutanybenefittothemselves.Wefoundthatpeopledidlieforthebenefitofothers,evenforcompletestrangers,butthoseliesdidzzofescalate.WealsocreatedanotherSituationwherelieswouldbenefttboththeliar2Z72itheotherPerson.Herewefoundthatjiesdidescalate，althoughnotasdramaticallyaswhenpeopleliedonjyforselftishreasons.WespecujlatethatoUTvolunteersfeltabitbadforlying,astheyweredoingitfortheirownbenefittoo，butthefactthatitalsobenefitedtheotherpersonsoftenedthosefeelings.Someo

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fthemostfamousjliarsinrecenttimes一includingGibsonandHolmes一didbenefttothers，Theirjliesbenefittedtheirfamiliesandtheiremployees，GibsonhadayoungSon;Holmesprovidedjobsforcompanyemployees.Theirliesgavehopetotheirfollowersandclients,thoughthathopeturnedouttobebasedonascam.Believingthatyourdishonestyaidsothersmaymakeitseemjustifiable.Yetitdoesnotcompletelyclearyouofguilt，shame，andfear一atleastnotatthebeginningofthejourney.ThinkbacktoMadoff\'swords一\"Yougetcomfortablewiththab”hesays,referringtolying.区ThosewordssuggestthatatSomepointhewaspotcomfortablewithit.Rather,hebecamecomfortablewithhisscamOvertime.ThisjastpointmaydistinguishpsychopathsfromtheMadoffsoftheworld.PerhapstheMadoffswereUncomfortablewiththeiractatfirst，whilethePsychopathsneverwere.Theyfeltnothingfromtheverybeginning.NIPITINTHEBUD?Knowingthatdishonestyescalatesduetohabituationhascjlearimplicationsforhowtodecreaseitathomeandatwotk:nipitinthebud.HIyouignoreSmalltransgressions，theymayslowlysnowballtoactswithseriousconsequences，Peoplemightgetusedtodishonestyandnolongerconsideritwrong.Athome,callingoutKidswhentheylie,sotheyfeelremorse，maymakethemjlessjlikelytohabituatetotheirowndishonesty，、Such

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